I talk about the importance of communication A LOT! You are probably rolling your eyes at me right now. I know you have heard the spiel … communication is the more important blah blah … You know I am right! But that is not what I am saying in this
Talking to a friend recently, a few points about punishment came up that I wanted to get written out to share with others. Punishment vs. FunishmentFirst of all, I want to state that I take punishments very seriously, both as a Domme and a sub. I know that a lot
Over the years I have developed a list of things to watch out for, red flags if you will. Signs that you should run away and not waste your time in a relationship. Most of these points are aimed at signs that might happen at the beginning of a relationship.
Safewords are a very important and useful tool in a D/s relationship. I firmly believe that they should be mandatory when you are starting to play with somebody you are not familiar with. Of course, they make a lot of sense in a real life scenario. If you are tied
I have had the opportunity to try a bunch of kinky things during the last 10 years of my life. I have had multiple Doms over the years and have really enjoyed experiencing many different kinks, toys, sensations and sexual acts. I have always allowed my list of likes/dislikes/limits to
Originally posted December 2016 Figging is always something I have wanted to try, but it is something that has always scared the crap out of me! Which I think also turned me on more …. After reading a blog recently about figging, I wanted to try it even more. Mr.
Over dinner the other night, my 15 year old brother decided to share with us, a video he found on youtube that he found amusing. This video is called “Not in your butt“. The reason I decided to post it here, was because while I was watching the video (blushing
Most people have limits, and so they should. Even if they are only basic things like: death! Everybody has limits. Limits are different from person to person. For one person it could be a limit to cause permanent damage, whereas another person could be open to body modifications. Limits are
Through the process of trying to find a co-dom, as well as working through some things in counselling, I have been learning a lot about myself. Every time we learn something new about ourselves, I think it is beneficial and only allows us to implement actions that make us feel
Awhile ago I posted a blog about using safewords in online relationships. As much as I acknowledge that safewords are important, I know that safewording can sometimes have a stigma attached to it. I know a lot of subs that will feel like a failure or as though they are